If you are divorcing a narcissist, or thinking of doing it, it's very important to understand what you are up against. These people are cold, callous, cruel and calculating and are capable of inflicting incredible damage on those around them. The fact that you want a divorce is evidence that they are losing control over you and as domination and control is a huge motivation for them, they typically don't give in easily.
Narcissists love to win. Divorce, to them, is a game. That makes divorcing them in any reasonable kind of way extremely challenging.